Hi
I'm not sure if I can spread this driver around.
I got it through Pernixdata. You can contact them.
Dell and Supermicro should also have access to it.
I'm not trying to be difficult, but since I got this driver through a third party as an unfinished driver, I don't want to f**k up my relationship with them by spreading this around if I'm not supposed to. 
I was told that the driver -could- be ready for public release within a couple of weeks.
The card works with vmwares driver, you don't get the same performance.
As I see it, the Intels driver for vmware also lacks a bit of performance still, compared to the windows driver.